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Christmas strolling, girls talk &other stories.

Hello everyone,

I’m writing this post at nearly 12pm midnight, sitting on my bed with candles all around my place (yes, I’m a tiny bit addicted 🙂 ), the window wide open, soaking in the fresh winter air.
I love this feeling before going to bed! Makes my mind feel clear and my heartbeat calm down so that I can fall asleep more settled and calmer.

Today was a fun day because I met one of the most important persons in my life again after 4 weeks or longer, and I really missed my little cutie pie. We grabbed some wintery scented coffee (guess where?! 😀 ) and (as you can imagine) after more than a month without seeing each other- it was about time for some serious girls talk!
We talked about all the things that happened in our lives the past few weeks and laughed a lot! Much needed quality time! ❤

Overthinking…
So we ended up talking about “overthinking”. I guess many of us tend to overthink because we want to make everything right without harming someone. But you know what? You can’t be perfect for everyone and the ones that really matter in your life love you just the way you are. If that’s the case you don’t have to run after them! Neither in friendships or while dating someone / in a relationship.

You’re wonderful just the way you are and there is no reason to think you’re not good enough for somebody else.

We’re not made for being friends with everyone because every single person is different in their personality, their point of view, their passions and focus in life. Are you an over thinker? Especially when it comes to dating someone and keeping the contact in a constant way? Is it a woman thing or are there men also overthinking reactions (or non reactions) of others?

We planned to take some pictures because there is no better way to remember beautiful moments and for some outfit posts but… mr. rain and mr. storm teamed up together to let us look like little poodles with messy hair – pretty much NOT picture ready. haha. So we just snapped some silly pics while goofing’ around in “&other stories” (one of my favorite stores!), before my phone battery gave up – perfect day when it comes to technic! We ended our afternoon with a stroll at one of the christmas markets and it was beyond beautiful! All the beautiful christmas trees, lights and christmas scents. Love this time of year! When everything seems to be so lovely and warm, trees become bright and shiny and dreams come true…

I wish you all the best and a wonderful inspiring friday lovelies!

xx Deborah Chloé

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A new journey… at the end of your comfort zone.

Good morning world.

Excuse my long text but there is so much to tell…

The past few days and weeks have been so crazy, so mind-blowing (not just in positive ways).
So many things happened, so many feelings to feel, so many thoughts and ideas on my mind.

I was thinking about starting my own little creative space over and over again the past three years, but I never did this step because I didn’t feel like it was the right timing.
Today I woke up early in the morning, went out for a morning run because I wasn’t able to fall asleep again, went back home, took a long hot shower and made a delicious breakfast. I lit up candles all over my place to feel comfy and cozy on such a cold winter day. I went on my desk to start my MacBook, to read my most favorite blogs and to see what is happening in the world. So I opened Facebook too and read a quote, postet by one of my all time favorite blogger girls “Zanita”. The quote says:

“Life is complex.
Each one of us must make his own path through life. There are no self-help manuals, no formulas, no easy answers. The right road for one is the wrong road for another…The journey of life is not paved in blacktop; it is not brightly lit, and it has no road signs. It is a rocky path through the wilderness. ”
― M. Scott Peck

I don’t know why but this quote really touched my heart and mind in so many ways. Our life IS a journey and we are our own tour guide, aren’t we? Suddenly I felt like NOW is the right moment to breathe in, to soak up all the beauty around me and to start being me, to start living my passions in a way that makes ME happy. To fight for my dreams and to let my ideas, thoughts and dreams become true. I want to go to my limits, to step out of my comfort zone and to live my passions, such as fashion, literature and writing also as beauty. I will not give this space a name such as “fashion blog” because it’s not.

It’s a puzzle made of all the pieces that make up my personality and I would love you to be part of this new path… my new journey with me as my own tour guide. Life is too short to work for anybody else but you. Too short to eliminate your passions and dreams.

So today I step out of my comfort zone. To start a new journey… To start a new me.

xx Deborah Chloé